Frustration

Ok it only took me about an hour to get this picture on here so I hope everyone looks at it for a very long time!!!! FRUSTRATION. Thats the word for the night. Blog help is really NO HELP! Seriously. But thats ok b/c its on there now. Lets just say I was really about to delete the whole blog and forget about it. I know you must be thinking that I just don't know how to read or I'm not good with "technical" things but I promise that I am not computer-illiterate!! But my question to all the pro-bloggers is...where do I find a cool free template for my blog?!?!